Women, Lets get real.

Women. It's time to get real here. I'm so sick of walking on egg  shells through life. As a woman, we go through so much. As a wife we go through even more. And as a mom....yikes! Each pregnancy our body, mind, and soul seems to change each time. 

I've never done a blog before. I'll say it now. This is not going to be a fancy, perfect grammar, look at me kinda blog. It is time to just take off all the hats and be real. On this blog, I'm going to go deep. Lets change the world in which we live. Let's stop saying we are going to support and be there for one another and actually start doing it. And for the love of God....lets stop pretending we are not ALL struggling. 

Look. I've made some pretty awesome choices in my life. And, I've made some pretty messed up ones also. I've built some amazing connections and relationships. And guess what? When my messed up choices came to light...who was still there for me? It was my husband, kids, and small core group of family and friends. 

Today, all I really want to do is introduce this blog and a brief about me.

I'm a Catholic, wife, mother of 5 and I've struggled for many years.  I'm not perfect and yes I may be Catholic and I'm in Mass every Sunday....and yes I'm also a sinner. I don't try to be a hypocrite! I go to Mass to help further my relationship with God and to help me not sin. On the outside, it looks like I'm a strong woman. But I sure don't feel strong. I am determined but I feel weak most of the time. It looks like I know what I'm doing with my life and where I'm headed but in reality, I feel lost. 

Women. I'm stopping today. I'm stopping today feeling like I'm the only woman that has the struggles I've had/have. Throughout this blog, I'm going to focus on issues I'm facing (past and present) and struggles I'm going through. 

Women. Are you up for the challenge? Let's get real and start realizing we are all going through life and give grace to one another. I need your support just as much as you need mine. 

Lets do this!

Till next time...Be Real.

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